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Apataki: Chango
first saw the light of day thanks to Obatala (in
a female aspect). However, Obatala soon became
indignant with her son's pranks and threw him
out of her house. Yemaya took pity on the young
Orisha and raised Chango as if he were her own
child.
Chango
grew up and left home to find his fortune. Chango
forgot the details of his upbringing. He had no
past. He wandered the world without roots and
without goals. Many years passed and many women
crossed his path. He had many amorous adventures.
So many, that he forgot, in time, Yemaya's face.
Time
passed. Chango kept chasing women, fighting and
going to parties. It was at one of these parties
where Chango met Yemaya again. He was drumming
and singing. The people were dancing. When he
looked up, he saw Yemaya.
He
immediately felt a very strong attraction towards
her. His heart opened and he felt an intense tenderness
wash over him. He did not remember feeling like
that before, so, he confused it with passion and
sexual attraction. He was wrong. What he felt
was the love of a son for his mother, his second
mother, the woman who had brought him up.
He
stopped playing the drums, stood up and sidled
up to Yemaya.
"Have
I met you somewhere before?" he asked.
Yemaya
turned her back on him for an answer.
"We
could go off and be alone," said Chango.
"Just you and I."
His
lips brushed her shoulder. She shrugged him off.
Yemaya
knew the dissolute life that Chango had been leading.
She knew he was a drinker, a brawler and a womanizer.
When he attempted to seduce her, his own mother,
she decided to teach him a lesson.
"I'm
going to teach him respect for women," she
said to herself. "I'm also going to teach
him a little humility." She turned to Chango.
"What did you have in mind?"
Chango
jumped at the opening. "Let's go to your
house and keep this party going. But, more privately."
He did not want to go to his house, since his
wives would not exactly approve of a conquest
under their own roof.
"Why,
I think that's a wonderful idea," purred
Yemaya, leading him on. "Come with me."
She
walked through the crowd. Chango was close behind.
"What
an easy conquest," he said to himself. "
What a virile man am I."
They
walked through the sleeping town until they came
to the seashore. Yemaya went to a small boat tied
to a rock. She got in the boat.
"Please
undo the lines," she told Chango.
"But,
where is your house?" asked Chango. "I
thought that you wanted to have a little party."
"My
house is over there," said Yemaya, pointing
towards the dark line of the horizon. "Come
with me."
She
stretched out her hand to Chango, who gingerly
climbed into the boat. He was rapidly losing his
enthusiasm for this romantic adventure. He was
afraid of boats and did not like the water because
he could not swim. But, it was too late to change
his mind. He would appear frightened. He was,
but he would admit it to any man, let alone a
woman.
Chango
tightened his grip on the gunwale as the little
boat bobbed over the breakers and headed out to
sea. The farther out they went, the more nervous
Chango became. The little boat was out of sight
of land.
"That's
enough," said Chango.
"Isn't
the sky lovely?" said Yemaya.
"I
said, that's enough," growled Chango, striking
the oars from her hands. "Who are you who
has the strength to send this boat flying over
the waves?"
Yemaya
did not answer. She sat in the boat calmly, her
hands crossed on her lap.
"Who
are you who can live out in the middle of the
ocean?" demanded Chango.
Instead
of answering him, Yemaya dove over the side and
swam straight down to the bottom of the sea.
Chango
was petrified. He had no idea how to handle a
boat. He didn't know what to do. Clumsily, he
picked up an oar, but got it tangled in the lines
coiled in the bottom of the boat.
While
Chango struggled, Yemaya sent a gigantic wave
towards him. It was a wave taller than a mountain.
When he saw the wave coming, Chango dropped the
oars and covered his head with his hands.
"I
can triumph over men," he muttered, curled
up in the bottom of the boat. "I can triumph
over women. But I can't triumph over this wave."
He took a peek over the side. A blue wall of water
was bearing down upon him. He tried to make himself
small. He tried to make himself disappear.
The
giant wave came crashing down on him. It washed
him off the boat and sent him tumbling and bubbling
to the bottom of the sea. It was quiet and blue.
Chango was afraid.
He
fought his way back to the surface and felt immensely
grateful to Olodumare when he was able to pull
in a lung full of air. The boat was floating right
next to him. He scrambled into it. He did not
sink and drown.
Yemaya
came gliding on the waves, her feet barely touching
the water.
"I
think you are going to have to save me,"
said Chango through chattering teeth.
"I
will save you upon one condition." said Yemaya.
"Name your condition."
"You
must respect your mother," said Yemaya.
"My
mother!" blustered Chango. "My mother
abandoned me when I was a baby."
At
that instant, Obatala, Chango's mother, who had
been magically aware of the lesson being given
to her son by Yemaya, appeared in the boat.
"You
have to respect Yemaya," said Obatala. "She
is your mother."
"You
are my mother," he yelled. "You abandoned
me when I was a child. You kicked me out of your
house."
"I
brought you into the world," said Obatala.
"But it was up to another to bring you up."
"You
forget women too easily, Chango," said Yemaya.
"You have hated your mother, but you have
forgotten your second mother."
"You
have forgotten that she is your mother, as well
as I," said Obatala. "I brought you
into this world and she raised you."
"You
have two mothers, Chango." said Yemaya. "you
have two mothers in a world where many people
have none."
A
stiff breeze sprang up and washed Chango clean
of the hatred he had carried for many years.
"I'm
sorry," he said. "I'm sorry I hated
you, Obatala. I'm sorry I forgot you, Yemaya."
He sighed. "It is indeed wonderful to have
two mothers."
From
that time on, he began to respect women more.
But, he is still a womanizer.
Notes:
Yemaya
is the Orisha that controls all the seas and the
oceans and all the creatures that live in them.
She
is considered the mother of all human beings.
When
Yemaya comes down and possess someone, she endows
him or her with all her grace and very spicy personality.
She will immediately call for a long gown tightly
belted at the waist and for her fan. She dances
with movements that are like the movement of the
waves. When the drums heat up, she dances like
waves in a hurricane.
She
is full of love and tenderness, as befits the
mother of all mankind.
Santeria,
A Practical Guide to Afro-Caribbean Magic.
By Luis M. Nuñez
Copyright (c) 1989 by Luis M. Nunez
All Rights Reserved
Copyright (c) 1992 by Spring Publications, Inc.
All Rights Reserved
ISBN 0-88214-349-2(pb)
Luis M. Nunez
P.O. Box 750228
New Orleans, LA 70175
e-mail: lmn02@gnofn.org
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